From The Enemies Project.

For Imtiaz, being Muslim meant God, family, food — everything. He grew to doubt Islam, but feared exile. When he renounced, he lost everyone. Maysa believes that a leaver like Imtiaz, who publicly criticizes Islam, is a traitor. We have all experienced painful exclusion. This is the story of complete social devastation. And healing.
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I. CONFLICT
0:00 Pre-Meeting Jitters
1:06 The Big Argument

II. GETTING TO KNOW YOU
7:59 What’s Beautiful?
12:05 Hardest Experience — Please SUBSCRIBE
19:56 Best Experience

II. POLITICS WITH MEANING
24:41 Why does this matter?
26:59 What 9-11 meant to Maysa
32:20 Imtiaz’s two 9-11s
35:43 Don’t hurt my people!
38:04 Maysa’s ownership of Islam
40:03 Sweet bathroom banter

IV. ME BEING YOU
40:34 Identity Confusion

V. A DIFFERENT KIND OF INTIMACY
51:57 Imtiaz had two kids
54:01 Maysa left Islam
56:46 The "weird intimate"

TIPS ON PERSUASION
22:48 Rapport before critique
25:40 "Truth" is a window into them
30:13 Listening to them makes them like you
36:08 Golden bridge
59:13 First impressions are junk

By February 21, 2026, this episode will be translated into Arabic, Urdu and Indonesian.

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