From NPR.

This letter writer asked her mom what name she wanted to go by as a grandmother. Then, she hated the answer. Is she stuck with it? ⁠
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Sahaj Kaur Kohli, therapist, author and founder of Brown Girl Therapy, and Bob Bordone, senior fellow at Harvard Law School, and author of "Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up Or Giving In," respond to this question for Dear Life Kit.⁠
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Dear Life Kit is NPR’s advice column. To hear the experts answer more audience questions, search “Life Kit” wherever you listen to podcasts.⁠