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Dr. K on YouTube: @HealthyGamerGG
Joe Hudson on YouTube: @ArtofAccomplishment

I’m thrilled to share this first Charisma on Command podcast with two guests who’ve deeply influenced my journey: Dr. K from Healthy Gamer (a mental health expert I’ve learned volumes from) and Joe Hudson from Art of Accomplishment (an OpenAI leadership coach). For 20 years, I’ve chased charisma, but today we cut past surface tactics to explore its raw essence—how it lives within us, not as a performance.

What unfolds is unlike anything I’ve recorded: We dissect why most charisma advice fails, how childhood patterns shape our presence, and why figures like Trump/Tate magnetize followers. If you’ve ever felt like you’re ‘faking’ charisma, tune in—this conversation rewires everything.

0:07 – Opening
2:40 – Charisma as diadic interaction
7:16 – Four Pillars
9:36 – Listening as charisma
13:05 – Key insight
18:33 – Validation Trap
21:46 – Choosing yourself
32:24 – Ego as "pile of micro-traumas"
37:05 – Welcoming unloved parts
43:48 – "By Me → Through Me → As Me
47:31 – Abandoning what works
58:34 – Default Mode Network (DMN):
1:03:42 – Ego dissolution
1:32:24 – Self-Talk Experiment
1:35:41 – Neuroplasticity Hack
1:37:04 – Why divisive figures attract followers
1:44:13 – Mirror effect

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